there has to be a fix to this, anyone?
i've goggled, maybe i'm missing something
there's no fix
apple made a conscious decision not to support flash in the iphone/ipod touch
apple prefers Ajax (google about their WebKit), and had they allowed flash, there was a risk that flash would become the dominant web dev environment for the iphone.
so do not expect to get flash on the iphone or ipod touch. ever.