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katelyn2

NASHVILLE/TN
Joined: 04/24/07
Posts: 6542

April 5th, 2008 - 11:07 PM

i mean. i love him to death. he's one of my best friends.
but sometimes...i seriously fucking hate him.

anyone else?

Meltedsquirrel

TUCSON/AZ
Joined: 04/24/07
Posts: 1164

April 5th, 2008 - 11:14 PM

omg yes. although I'm starting to not love my roommates to death anymore.

innocentlust

ALBANY/NY
Joined: 04/24/07
Posts: 2035

April 5th, 2008 - 11:15 PM

I hate 3 out of 5 roommates, at any given time.

katelyn2

NASHVILLE/TN
Joined: 04/24/07
Posts: 6542

April 5th, 2008 - 11:18 PM

yeah...i'm thinking this is the problem with getting a place with a good friend. all their shit habits drive you to insanity. god, why am i still awake?! i have to wake up in like 5 hours. i'm going to sleep!

Meltedsquirrel

TUCSON/AZ
Joined: 04/24/07
Posts: 1164

April 5th, 2008 - 11:25 PM

I hate 3 out of 4 of the other people in this house. Seriously I don't even feel comfortable in this house anymore.

innocentlust

ALBANY/NY
Joined: 04/24/07
Posts: 2035

April 5th, 2008 - 11:34 PM

Meltedsquirrel Said:

I hate 3 out of 4 of the other people in this house. Seriously I don't even feel comfortable in this house anymore.

srsly, plus I have 5 boys who are pretty much complete douches who also think they live in my room. One is currently lounging in my bed while I'm sitting on a chair. Time for me to get my own place.

EnderWiggin

LAKE FOREST/CA
Joined: 04/24/07
Posts: 8919

April 5th, 2008 - 11:40 PM

Meltedsquirrel Said:

omg yes. although I'm starting to not love my roommates to death anymore.

And soon, you'll be loving them to death again.

Only literally, and with sharp kitchen utensils.

Meltedsquirrel

TUCSON/AZ
Joined: 04/24/07
Posts: 1164

April 5th, 2008 - 11:40 PM

innocentlust Said:

Meltedsquirrel Said:

I hate 3 out of 4 of the other people in this house. Seriously I don't even feel comfortable in this house anymore.

srsly, plus I have 5 boys who are pretty much complete douches who also think they live in my room. One is currently lounging in my bed while I'm sitting on a chair. Time for me to get my own place.

Yeah they tend to walk into my room unannounced as well. And they also complain if we (my boyfriend and I) leave one dish unwashed but yet they can trash the living room and kitchen and then go out of town the next day without cleaning it up. Seriously.

get_in_the_van

PITTSBURGH/PA
Joined: 04/24/07
Posts: 1675

April 5th, 2008 - 11:45 PM

My roommate has been sick for like 2 weeks.
I didn't really start hating her until she started blowing her nose every 5 minutes.

SERPENT7

THOUSAND OAKS/CA
Joined: 12/14/07
Posts: 1125

April 6th, 2008 - 12:00 AM

To all who hate your roomates:
In my experience, this often arises from a lack of communication. Be a reasonable adult, and expect the same from them. If they mis-behave, or invade your turf, just be honest, and communicate your feelings fully and clearly. (Most people are not being douches on purpose, just being inconsiderate) If they cannot handle it, that is their problem. But if you say nothing, well, that is your problem.
Also, this issue might be compounded by a little territory aggression.
Just something to think about.

Meltedsquirrel

TUCSON/AZ
Joined: 04/24/07
Posts: 1164

April 6th, 2008 - 12:08 AM

SERPENT7 Said:

To all who hate your roomates:
In my experience, this often arises from a lack of communication. Be a reasonable adult, and expect the same from them. If they mis-behave, or invade your turf, just be honest, and communicate your feelings fully and clearly. (Most people are not being douches on purpose, just being inconsiderate) If they cannot handle it, that is their problem. But if you say nothing, well, that is your problem.
Also, this issue might be compounded by a little territory aggression.
Just something to think about.

Yeah I did this already. And guess what I got told in return the next day? That they had a blast making fun of me for like two hours. yeah awesome.

SERPENT7

THOUSAND OAKS/CA
Joined: 12/14/07
Posts: 1125

April 6th, 2008 - 12:14 AM

Meltedsquirrel Said:

SERPENT7 Said:

To all who hate your roomates:
In my experience, this often arises from a lack of communication. Be a reasonable adult, and expect the same from them. If they mis-behave, or invade your turf, just be honest, and communicate your feelings fully and clearly. (Most people are not being douches on purpose, just being inconsiderate) If they cannot handle it, that is their problem. But if you say nothing, well, that is your problem.
Also, this issue might be compounded by a little territory aggression.
Just something to think about.

Yeah I did this already. And guess what I got told in return the next day? That they had a blast making fun of me for like two hours. yeah awesome.

Well, yer not their maid, or their mother. If they cannot pick up after themselves, then they need some help in this department. I suggest throwing their dishes out, or just leaving them in a pile on the floor of their bedroom. Maybe that will get their attention. Just remember that when they complain at you, to keep your cool, and explain your position. AGAIN. SLOWLY. If that doesn't work, live with their hypocrisies, or move out.
OTOH, dealing with this BS is a part of being young. Enjoy i while it lasts.
Also,
Fuck them for mocking you in your attempt at maturity.