where she didn't try to boss me around or tell me (repeatedly) what to do.
Seriously, sometimes a girl just wants to talk about the weather and the movie she just watched and not have to listen to how she should be taking a multivitamin and going to the gym at least three times a week (things so already does) and how the next door neighbor has high blood pressure so I should be careful.
yeah as i get older and want to share my life experiences with my mom (who also works two jobs and is never has any time to relax) and she tends to think im asking for advice. im just like "I KNOW I KNOW MOM IM JUST TALKING TO YOU. GAWD."
I don't "share" with my mother... she stills finds a way to annoyingly turn each 5 minute conversation into a painful speech about how I should be living my life.
I just drove back to my apartment, which is a 20 minute drive, to look for the keys to my Dad's truck because Mom said I took them out of the house.
And honestly, I left rather than argue and start a big thing about it.
Of course, as soon as I got to the apartment, they called to say they'd found the keys, because like I told my mother the first time, I didn't take them out of the house after I used the truck.
thats why i moved out like 3 weeks after i finnished school... and then didnt call or write for years...
i moved out just as quick. i still talked to them on a weekly basis. now i visit them while i'm living in the town once a week. me and my mother's relationship has gotten much beter since i've moved out. our problem is we have very different outlooks on the world we've learned that we cant talk about political type things.
My mother loves to say that just because I grew up doesn't mean she did. At least my mother knows she can be a pain in my ass.. and I love her all the more for it.
I don't "share" with my mother... she stills finds a way to annoyingly turn each 5 minute conversation into a painful speech about how I should be living my life.
Oh god this does not go away?
My mom is miserable, it sucks, she used to be really really happy but now talking to her/being near her is just depressing.