BrodieLafours Said:
and it's because you fucking women can't seem to communicate in any sort of way that makes sense.
So I got drunk and spilled my guts to a women that I had been on a couple of dates with (really awesome dates that we seemed to really hit it off on and both made it clear that we wanted to spend more time together).
So yeah, I got drunk and put my cards on the table and told her that I really liked her. She then told me that she was uncomfortable with that b/c she just got out of a relationship in august, and she really isn't looking for anything right now.
So I'm all "ok, cool whatever" and just write it off.
She continues to g-chat with me in class over the last week.
then tonight, when she knows that I was going out to see this band play at a local bar, she calls me at like 11pm. I try and answer, but by the time I get to a place where I can hear, she's hung up...... I txt message her "I'm at XXXXXXXX and it's loud, what's up?" to which she never responds.
Then, I just got home about 15 minutes ago, I check my e-mail, see she's on g-chat and ask her "hey, what were you calling about earlier?" and she doesn't respond, but like a minute later gets offline.
so seriously
people wonder why I fucking hate women
1. A couple dates is too soon to put cards on the table. Awesome dates or not. It's a gamble you won't always win.
2. Don't say "cool, whatever" if you aren't cool with the arrangement. If you are cool with it, then you can't flip out if she doesn't respond to your messages immediately.
3. It's easy miscommunicate via cell phone and gchat. Be more patient.
4. I SAID BE MORE PATIENT!