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mollybee
PITTSBURGH/PA
Joined: 12/25/08
Posts: 1486
November 4th, 2009 - 3:30 PM

because you have to actually modify yourself for someone to like you.

I hate being a roommate.


Quez
LONG BEACH/CA
Joined: Old School
Posts: 364
November 4th, 2009 - 3:34 PM

really? i've never had to do this. my friends mock and abuse me for the very person i am.


yourgravestword
SAN MARCOS/TX
Joined: 10/28/09
Posts: 115
November 4th, 2009 - 3:34 PM

My best friend is my roommate.
He's awesome, except he doesn't like Saves the Day or Lifetime.
He didn't like much hardcore either, but it grew on him.
He also buys me food and doesn't wake me up for bullshit reasons.
Once he was having sex (our dorm is really small, beds six feet or so apart) and he was nice enough to put on Twilight for me to watch.
Good dude, backed hard.


mollybee
PITTSBURGH/PA
Joined: 12/25/08
Posts: 1486
November 4th, 2009 - 3:35 PM

Well considering the roommate stand point, I have to.
And it's weird when that person is pretty much your BFFE!!1!


TresChic
WASHINGTON/DC
Joined: 10/07/09
Posts: 888
November 4th, 2009 - 3:38 PM

Relationships are all about compromises and sacrifices to make one another happy.

You might be modifying yourself, but they're probably doing the same.


BriWa
ORLANDO/FL
Joined: 10/12/09
Posts: 205
November 4th, 2009 - 3:39 PM

Quez Said:
really? i've never had to do this. my friends mock and abuse me for the very person i am.


facade515
NEW ORLEANS/LA
Joined: 10/26/09
Posts: 362
November 4th, 2009 - 3:51 PM

Quez Said:
really? i've never had to do this. my friends mock and abuse me for the very person i am.


amen


medusamagoni
RANCHO CUCAMONGA/CA
Joined: 06/23/09
Posts: 1519
November 4th, 2009 - 3:52 PM

FUCK THAT SHIT GIRL, DO YOU.


TheGreg
SALT LAKE CITY/UT
Joined: 10/28/09
Posts: 60
November 4th, 2009 - 4:02 PM

My best friend and I are about as different as you can get...we united through common interests in drinking too much...became best friends through hating the same things and drinking to that...


gravytrain009
BROOKLYN/NY
Joined: Old School
Posts: 8972
November 4th, 2009 - 4:18 PM

Self-modification is what keeps everyone from being the asshole they are naturally inclined to be.


youth
GAITHERSBURG/MD
Joined: Old School
Posts: 5215
November 4th, 2009 - 4:31 PM

so from your BFF4eva!1!'s standpoint, you have to change to suit her standard? or should you both have to make "sacrifices" for peace love unity harmony and all that jazz


Shelburt
CANTON/NC
Joined: 07/13/09
Posts: 3735
November 4th, 2009 - 4:33 PM

Molly, let's room-mate
YOu can totally be whatever kind of Molly you want throughout your stay


wavesxaway
GARLAND/TX
Joined: 09/25/08
Posts: 3335
November 4th, 2009 - 4:42 PM

me and my best friend are complete opposites
she's a lil azn gangsta bitch/ im a redneck dick apparently, according to her
she's been my best friend since freshman year of high school
and not much has changed


math
AUBURN/WA
Joined: Old School
Posts: 4717
November 4th, 2009 - 4:45 PM

that's kinda how I made my friends, anyone who can't hang is out. had seven of us all in one house at one point. there were occasional kerfuffles but no major existential conflicts.


1otherwhitemeat
MISSOULA/MT
Joined: Old School
Posts: 2069
November 4th, 2009 - 5:32 PM

my best friends all live >1000 miles away
and they accept me for the asshole i am
things would probably be pretty sweet if we all lived together
we'd probably end up in jail
but one of em is a lawyer so like, it's cool

sorry to hear roommates are trouble
it's a universal problem.
seriously.


Hollow
GAINESVILLE/FL
Joined: 11/18/08
Posts: 4013
November 4th, 2009 - 5:51 PM

living with your best friend is the worst idea in the world.

i did this my freshman year. i see her about once a month at parties by chance.


Hollow
GAINESVILLE/FL
Joined: 11/18/08
Posts: 4013
November 4th, 2009 - 5:53 PM

Shelburt Said:
Molly, let's room-mate
YOu can totally be whatever kind of Molly you want throughout your stay


also this


i <3 you


deathfuckinmeta
CAMBRIDGE/MA
Joined: Old School
Posts: 5515
November 4th, 2009 - 6:20 PM

MY BEST FRIEND IS A JADED LESBIAN.

WE GET ALONG REALLY WELL.


h1lary
HOUSTON/TX
Joined: 07/21/09
Posts: 577
November 4th, 2009 - 6:22 PM

Thats why in college I won't room with one of my friends. I'll take the draw.
Too much togetherness leads to bitchiness leads to hate. And I'd like to keep my friends.


HippieNoMore
KELLER/TX
Joined: 11/04/09
Posts: 110
November 4th, 2009 - 6:23 PM

It's not a (best) friend if you need to mold yourself to fit their figure.
Who cares if people don't accept you, they have problems of their own.


mollybee
PITTSBURGH/PA
Joined: 12/25/08
Posts: 1486
November 4th, 2009 - 6:32 PM

We weren't friends before college, and since the beginning of school we've gotten really close and we're always together.
It's more just the sacrifice stuff that I have to make, because she just isn't comfortable with stuff that I do
which sucks, but what can I do..

& I think we need a MOC ladies house, Michelle and Shelby and any other takers.


bosley
FAIRBANKS/AK
Joined: Old School
Posts: 3961
November 4th, 2009 - 7:12 PM

1otherwhitemeat Said:
my best friends all live >1000 miles away for now
and they accept me for the asshole i am
we'd probably end up in jail
but one of em is a lawyer so like, it's cool


dear god, we're in trouble when i come home.


ryanage
PALM COAST/FL
Joined: 09/08/08
Posts: 8681
November 4th, 2009 - 9:10 PM

yourgravestword Said:
My best friend is my roommate.
He also buys me food and doesn't wake me up for bullshit reasons.




this is relevant to my living situation.


gwennygirl
FLINT/MI
Joined: 02/13/09
Posts: 987
November 4th, 2009 - 9:12 PM

i hated my first roommate in college. we were both considerate of each others space, but she was pretty much one of the most awful people i had ever met.

i switched roommates after the first semester. it was an awesome decision.


sourheart
out there
Joined: 11/03/09
Posts: 90
November 4th, 2009 - 9:36 PM

I don't have a roommate, but i only have one good friend i can count on. just one. he lives in a different city and he's a total wacko haha :) but sometimes i wish i had more people i trusted. most of my "friends" here should probably be called acquaintances... too much gossiping and talking dirt behind your back


HellaBolt
WESTERLY/RI
Joined: 07/16/09
Posts: 2470
November 5th, 2009 - 12:36 AM

yourgravestword Said:
My best friend is my roommate.
He's awesome, except he doesn't like Saves the Day or Lifetime.
He didn't like much hardcore either, but it grew on him.
He also buys me food and doesn't wake me up for bullshit reasons.
Once he was having sex (our dorm is really small, beds six feet or so apart) and he was nice enough to put on Twilight for me to watch.
Good dude, backed hard.

tough break with the twilight, and sex in the same room deal.
force that hardcore on him something fierce!


likerain
LOS ANGELES/CA
Joined: Old School
Posts: 7183
November 5th, 2009 - 12:46 AM

mollybee Said:
We weren't friends before college, and since the beginning of school we've gotten really close and we're always together.
It's more just the sacrifice stuff that I have to make, because she just isn't comfortable with stuff that I do
which sucks, but what can I do..

& I think we need a MOC ladies house, Michelle and Shelby and any other takers.


can i be the den mom?


Church
LOS ANGELES/CA
Joined: 05/03/09
Posts: 561
November 5th, 2009 - 12:49 AM

best friends make me feel lonely


emilectrique
WOODBRIDGE/VA
Joined: Old School
Posts: 7900
November 5th, 2009 - 12:53 AM

gravytrain009 Said:
Self-modification is what keeps everyone from being the asshole they are naturally inclined to be.


leenmachine
AUSTRALIA
Joined: 09/21/09
Posts: 1055
November 5th, 2009 - 1:19 AM

i don't have "best" friends or "favourite" things.
life is too diverse to pick just one.

and you shouldn't feel pressured to act a certain way. i have diverse friends and love them for who they are as people!
(i love who you are as people!)


emilectrique
WOODBRIDGE/VA
Joined: Old School
Posts: 7900
November 5th, 2009 - 1:22 AM

leenmachine is so nice. :)


Maladjusted
ROSEVILLE/CA
Joined: 06/30/09
Posts: 177
November 5th, 2009 - 1:29 AM

mollybee Said:
because you have to actually modify yourself for someone to like you.

I hate being a roommate.


Having a best friend also requires trust on a deeper than regular level. which in then takes all sorts of other things like time, effort, money, energy.

Things I'd rather not waste on those who 75% of the time are after their own personal agenda that they didn't tell you about.


leenmachine
AUSTRALIA
Joined: 09/21/09
Posts: 1055
November 5th, 2009 - 1:41 AM

emilectrique Said:
leenmachine is so nice. :)


haha, not everyone would agree on that!


mollybee
PITTSBURGH/PA
Joined: 12/25/08
Posts: 1486
November 5th, 2009 - 8:09 AM

i fink you aree! I love me some Kathleen.

Maladjusted Said:
mollybee Said:
because you have to actually modify yourself for someone to like you.

I hate being a roommate.


Having a best friend also requires trust on a deeper than regular level. which in then takes all sorts of other things like time, effort, money, energy.

Things I'd rather not waste on those who 75% of the time are after their own personal agenda that they didn't tell you about.


I feel like this is jaded. but it's similar to how I feel.


caranicole
PENSACOLA/FL
Joined: Old School
Posts: 2670
November 5th, 2009 - 8:17 AM

Quez Said:
really? i've never had to do this.
youth Said:
so from your BFF4eva!1!'s standpoint, you have to change to suit her standard? or should you both have to make "sacrifices" for peace love unity harmony and all that jazz


Quez
LONG BEACH/CA
Joined: Old School
Posts: 364
November 5th, 2009 - 9:18 AM

i get to see my best friends today! woohoo!


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